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Bridesmaids and Flower Girls What do i do?

#1 User is offline   Hayley_C_tobe 

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Posted 28 December 2009 - 11:26 AM

Hi Ladies

I asked my Sister-in-Law to be my Maid of Honour on Christmas Eve and she very excitedly said yes. I have the problem now though of what to do about my flower girls. We were going to ask our 2 God-Daughters to be flower girls only to find out we had been pipped to the post by someone else, who is getting married next year (we get married in Feb 2011). The weddings are going to be different, one is in a registry office and ours is a civil ceremony at a castle.

So what do we do, do we still ask them or not?

What do you think ladies?
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Posted 28 December 2009 - 11:28 AM

are the weddings on the same day??

or are you thinking about budget and that it would save a few £s??
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Posted 28 December 2009 - 11:38 AM

QUOTE (jojo62900 @ Dec 28 2009, 10:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
are the weddings on the same day??

or are you thinking about budget and that it would save a few £s??


No, not bothered about the budget. One wedding is next year and ours is in Feb 2011. Just don't want them to think that we are asking just because the others have. Maybe i am making a mountain out of a molehill. We got engaged back in May and have just been sorting out the venue, date etc so had not decided on bridesmaids, best men, flower girls etc. The other friends just got engaged a couple of weeks ago and have not set dates or anything just asked them straight away.

Sorry, have put my post in the wrong section, should have gone in the wedding planning bit.
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Posted 28 December 2009 - 11:46 AM

i say ask them. youngsters tend not to think that way and will just be thrilled to have another opportunity to dress up!

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Posted 28 December 2009 - 11:52 AM

aww you should ask them, they'll be really excited smile.gif
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Posted 29 December 2009 - 09:56 PM

i'd ask them to... i am sure they wont think you are asking just because the others did.

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Posted 29 December 2009 - 10:14 PM

ask them
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Posted 10 January 2010 - 09:57 PM

Defo ask them, they'll love it !!! I'm having three flowergirls who are my nieces. My 3 year old one keeps saying 'for MY wedding ...' her mam has to keep saying to her Its AUNTIES wedding not your wedding ha ha x
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Posted 12 January 2010 - 02:53 PM

Definately ask them!!

I realise im posting this a bit late after your posted the original thread so just wondering did you ask them in the end?! x
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